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9 secrets of a great kissers

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Imagine this: you’re standing close to someone special on a date, hearts racing, eyes locked, and you know the moment for your first kiss is approaching. It’s a thrilling blend of excitement and nerves. Whether it’s the end of a perfect date or a spontaneous moment under the stars, the anticipation of a first kiss is a universal experience that can make your heart skip a beat. Here are nine essential dating tips to help you master the art of kissing your date and make the moment unforgettable.

Support and Attention to Their Partner’s Feelings

A good kisser is attuned to their partner’s emotions and needs. They understand that a kiss is not just a physical act but an emotional connection. Think about how attentive and caring Ayan (Ranbir Kapoor) is towards Alizeh (Anushka Sharma) in “Ae Dil Hai Mushkil.” Their kisses feel genuine because Ayan always ensures that Alizeh feels safe and cherished. Creating a supportive environment where your date feels valued and comfortable is key.

No Rules! Go with the Flow

Great kissers understand that there are no rigid rules when it comes to kissing. They go with the flow and respond naturally to their partner’s cues. Remember the spontaneous kiss between Bunny (Ranbir Kapoor) and Naina (Deepika Padukone) in “Yeh Jawaani Hai Deewani”? Their uninhibited approach shows that the best kisses are those that are unplanned and heartfelt. Let the moment guide you and enjoy the natural progression of your kiss.

They Have Impeccable Oral Hygiene

Maintaining good oral hygiene is a basic yet crucial aspect of being a good kisser. Fresh breath and clean teeth can make a significant difference. Think about the impeccably groomed Kabir (Shahid Kapoor) in “Kabir Singh.” His attention to cleanliness ensures that any close moments with Preeti (Kiara Advani) are pleasant. Good oral hygiene shows respect for your partner and enhances the overall experience.

They Communicate with Their Eyes

The eyes can convey deep emotions and create a powerful connection. Good kissers use eye contact to communicate desire, love, and reassurance. In “Barfi!,” the silent yet profound exchanges between Barfi (Ranbir Kapoor) and Shruti (Ileana D’Cruz) highlight how powerful eye contact can be. Their eyes speak volumes, creating an intense and intimate atmosphere before their lips even meet. Use your eyes to express what words cannot.

They Explore the Right Spot

Understanding and exploring the right spots can turn a good kiss into an unforgettable one. Good kissers pay attention to what excites their partner and are not afraid to explore beyond the lips. In “Rockstar,” Janardhan (Ranbir Kapoor) and Heer (Nargis Fakhri) share moments where gentle kisses on the forehead and cheeks convey deep affection, proving that a kiss is not limited to the lips alone. Experiment with different spots to enhance the experience.

Not Just Lips, They Know How to Use Their Fingers Right

A great kisser knows that the hands can enhance the experience. Gentle touches and caresses can heighten the intimacy. In “Kal Ho Naa Ho,” Aman (Shah Rukh Khan) and Naina’s (Preity Zinta) romantic moments are filled with soft touches and caresses that complement their kisses. Using fingers to trace the face, hold the neck, or run through the hair can make the kiss more passionate and tender.

They Start Slow and Steady

Starting slow and building up the intensity is a hallmark of a good kisser. This approach allows both partners to savor the moment and gradually immerse themselves in the kiss. The slow and steady build-up in “Veer-Zaara,” where Veer (Shah Rukh Khan) and Zaara (Preity Zinta) share a heartfelt kiss, exemplifies how patience and pacing can create a memorable and meaningful connection.

They Follow the Unsaid Clues Of Their Partner

Good kissers are intuitive and pay close attention to their partner’s unsaid clues. The way they breathe, hold you or react with their body movements can guide you. In “Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi,” Suri (Shah Rukh Khan) carefully observes Taani’s (Anushka Sharma) responses, ensuring that every kiss is in tune with her comfort and desire. This attentiveness helps create a harmonious and enjoyable experience for both.

Lead with Your Breathe

Breath control is a subtle yet powerful tool in the art of kissing. The way you breathe can send signals and create anticipation. In “Tamasha,” Ved (Ranbir Kapoor) and Tara’s (Deepika Padukone) intimate scenes show how breathing can enhance the connection. Breathing softly on the neck or near the ears can heighten sensitivity and show that you have control over the moment, making the kiss more intense and passionate.


The magic of a perfect kiss lies in the connection and mutual understanding between partners. By paying attention to your date’s feelings, going with the flow, maintaining good hygiene, using eye contact, exploring the right spots, incorporating gentle touches, starting slow, following unsaid clues, and leading with your breath, you can create a memorable and enchanting kissing experience. Let your kisses tell a story of love, passion, and connection.